Humanistic conscience
When I think I am listening to myself, whose voice am I hearing?
Erich Fromm asked a version of this in Man for Himself (1947), a book about ethics written by a psychoanalyst. Its fourth chapter, "Problems of Humanistic Ethics", has a section with an unusual title: "Conscience, Man's Recall to Himself". In it Fromm separates two things that go by the same name.
Two consciences
The first he calls authoritarian conscience. It is the voice of an outside authority that has moved inside: parents, church, state, public opinion. Fromm says this is what Freud described as the Super-Ego. A good conscience of this kind means the authority is pleased. A guilty one means it is not.
The second he calls humanistic conscience. It is not an authority a person tries to please, he writes. It is the person's own voice, and it answers to no outside reward or punishment. It is the reaction of the whole person to how that person is living. Fromm puts it this way:
"It is the voice of our true selves which summons us back to ourselves."
— Erich Fromm, Man for Himself (1947), chapter IV, section 2, "Conscience, Man's Recall to Himself"
That is where the section title comes from. Conscience here does not judge from above. It calls a person back.
Why it is hard to hear
Fromm does not claim that this voice is loud. He says the opposite. People wait for conscience to speak clearly, he writes, and while they wait they hear nothing. The voice is feeble and indistinct.
He gives two reasons it goes unheard. The first is that hearing conscience means hearing oneself, and he thought his culture had lost the habit. People listen to every voice and to everybody, he wrote, except their own. Films, newspapers, radio and idle talk fill the space. Listening to oneself also needs the ability to be alone with oneself, and Fromm saw in his contemporaries a phobia of exactly that. He read it as embarrassment at meeting a person both so familiar and so strange.
The second reason is that conscience rarely speaks directly. Fromm lists what it sounds like instead: vague guilt, unease, tiredness, listlessness. A person may feel anxious or even ill and not connect it with conscience at all. Sometimes the unease gets a false explanation, guilt over some small omission that is not a real moral question.
Which voice is loud
Set side by side, the two descriptions differ in volume. The authoritarian voice comes with commands and a known speaker. The humanistic one is quiet and speaks in roundabout ways. So the voice a person hears most clearly inside may not be their own.
The distance between people that no conversation removes has its own page: existential isolation.
That leaves the question the section keeps asking. When I think I am listening to myself, whose voice am I hearing?
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